Ever since I was a little girl I've desired to have a farm. I summered with my grandparents who had huge gardens with fruit trees including the most amazing cherry tree I've ever seen. I am very blessed for that experience and for now having my own farm where I can provide an amazing place for my boys to grow up.
I wanted to be a farmer because I love being one. The smile I get when a little seedling emerges, when a chick climbs onto your hand and lays down it's head looking at you, and also the ability to spend more time with my children. These are just a few of the wonderful things about having a farm. I am also delighted to be able to provide great healthy produce and raise animals in a safe and happy environment.
This brings me to a downside. I've been talking with many seasoned farmers and they say it's inevitable. Eventually by being a farmer you will be attacked.
I was asked to speak about organic farming at a dinner a couple weeks ago. I was also expressly asked mulitple times to also talk about my animals. As there were many vegetarians and some vegans at the dinner I was uncomfortable but did as requested trying to keep it short and light and get back to vegetables. After the talk everyone was quite complementary and I felt very encouraged and accepted.
The unfortunate part is the next day a group which had attended the dinner and who had also thanked me personally for coming, attacked me over the internet the next day.
Frankly I was shocked and very hurt. I had not meant to cause anyone to be upset. I had just talked about what I had been asked to speak about.
It was even more unfortunate as I was then sent critical, hateful emails and personal messages by people who had read what had been posted. They had automatically assumed the worst.
When I had talked that evening about my animals I tried to be as brief as possible and made sure to describe the good life I provide them. Regrettably this group seemed to have only heard what they wished to hear and did not speak up and ask for me to change the subject.
People must realize that the majority of the population eat meat. By having my farm I provide an option for people to support farmers who care about their animals. Instead of buying from a factory farm, they have another option.
When I went to my Market meeting this past weekend and shared these events, everyone was very upset this had happened. Many of them have had similar experiences. They are all very supportive of me and told me to keep up the great work I am doing. My friends and family agree.
Farmers we discussed are an odd breed. We get up early, we work 24/7, feed our animals before we feed ourselves, water the garden before breakfast and I fully admit I, myself get overwhelmed at least once a week where I have a good cry, then pick myself up, dust off and get back at it.
Please take the time to say hello and thank your farmer for what they do. Farming is so important. I go around at the market each week and tell all of them how wonderful they are!
I wished to share this experience as I thought you all should be aware of what happened. I care deeply for all my animals and am teaching my children to as well. This has been a learning experience and has made me even more determined to continue my great work and support my local community.